Redesign Your LifeIf you are brilliant at work, silent at family events, and scrolling or eating through the night, this free call shows you the way out in 90 days, not years.
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They stood where you stand today. Hear it in their own words.
Written by women after completing the 90-day Redesign Your Life program.
Prabha Mam,
Not 1, not 2 but 3 big things have happened in my life. I am promoted as Senior Manager now with a big hike in my pay. I also met an awesome guy from my company itself and we are going strong and quite serious about committing. 3rd thing is, I broke all communication barriers with my friends and now I meeting them like earlier days and really enjoying my life. I can't thank you enough for what you made me implement through the 90 day program. Even my mother had given up on me, but you didn't. OMG, look at my life now....I myself can't believe what i have achieved...... TKU, TKU, TKU & TKU.
Prabha,
I keep telling all my friends that you've got a magic wand with you, that can turn around women's lives....I swear it. After attending the 90 days program now I have overcome all my phobias and loneliness. I sleep so well now and made tonnes of new friends since you taught me how to communicate. I am also dating this guy Akash and met his family too. I will annouce the good news soon. The best thing that happened in my life is, meeting you. Thanks n Luv You and Adore You.
Maam,
Just want to let you know that I made a break-through with my ex-husband. He agreed today on paper, through our Lawyer for a good Alimony amount that will help me and my son to manage our life better. Also I am applying for a better job now because I feel so so happy and confident after attending the 90 day program and I know exactly what to say and what to do next to change my life. Thanks to You for guiding me and showing the correct way. It has really worked. My Sincere Thanks to You.
Prabha Maam,
Writing this out of pure gratitude. What you have done for my life, the way you turned it around, let me tell you, no one in my life has ever done this for me. From a depressed and confused person that I was after Divorce, today I am so happy and confident. You made me find the purpose of my life and existence. I am confident enough to achieve anything now, including Finding my new Life Partner. Let's catch up someday as I want to share so many things with you...... 🙏🙏🙏
You close deals, lead teams or run your own business. Then you go home and replay the arguments. You stopped answering relatives' calls. You skip the weddings. You avoid the neighbour who asks "so what happened?" You eat, shop or scroll until the feeling goes quiet, and it comes back every morning.
Grief, anger, guilt and loneliness take turns. Sleep is thin, anxiety spikes, and the "what ifs" never finish.
You carry shame about a "failed marriage" and a quiet fear of being judged by everyone who picked a side.
One income, EMIs, bills, kids, school logistics, court dates, and an ex or in-laws who still cross your boundaries.
Low focus at work. Missed opportunities. No time to breathe. Weekends and holidays that feel painfully empty.
You doubt your own judgment and fear repeating old patterns, so you either avoid dating or rebound from it.
You have stopped caring for your health and appearance, and decisions feel foggy and heavy.
"I'm broken. I ruin relationships."
"I'm too old to start over."
"My kids are damaged because of me."
"If I focus on me, I'm a selfish parent."
"I don't have the discipline. Habits never stick."
"My ex still controls my life."
These are not facts. They are what pain sounds like when nobody has given it a structure. And you have probably already tried to fix it with the usual things.
Book my Call. I want to Fix my Problem NowTalk therapy that moved slowly. Friends who gave advice and judgment in equal measure. Self-help binges, journals, affirmations, gym bursts, a retreat that felt wonderful for nine days. A lawyer who planned your court dates but not your life.
Each helped a little. None gave you a roadmap from breakdown to rebuild, a safe place to be accountable, or a simple way to turn insight into daily behaviour. So motivation faded, a trigger hit, and you were back at the start, now with one more reason to believe "something is wrong with me."
Nothing is wrong with you. The missing piece was structure.
Redesign Your Life is a 90-day program built on Prabha's own HEART Formula. It takes you from emotional survival to a life you designed, one clear stage at a time.
Calm the grief, guilt and anxiety so they stop running your day.
Rebuild identity and self-trust beyond "ex-wife."
Set boundaries, routines, money and parenting that fit the new you.
Restart career momentum, community and a home that feels yours.
Walk out with a 12-month life blueprint and milestones to celebrate.
This is a free, one-to-one online call with Prabha, 15 to 30 minutes long. It is not a sales script and it is not therapy. It is a focused conversation about where you are stuck and what would move you forward first.
Tools to settle the panic spirals and the 2 a.m. replays, so sleep and focus start to return.
Clear lines with your ex, in-laws, family and employer, and less conflict around the children.
Sleep, movement, meals and rituals that last past week one, plus a budget, EMI plan, savings and an emergency buffer.
Pride in the parent you are becoming, with no more guilt that focusing on yourself is selfish.
A safe tribe that gets it, one or two accountability partners, career or business momentum, dating readiness on your terms, and milestones worth celebrating.
I am Prabha Somayaji, founder of Redesign Your Life. After my divorce I raised my two young daughters on my own, without support, through the loneliness of being single and starting over. I know the empty weekends and the silence that follows the court date.
I built a 20-year career at Infosys Technologies and Motorola India. Today I run my own business and have spent over 12 years coaching and mentoring women through the same journey, using the HEART Formula I built from my own rebuild.
"Time heals all wounds."
Time passes. Healing happens when you do the work, and it can be faster with structure.
"My kids will be fine if I ignore my pain."
Children read your state. A steadier you is the best thing you can give them.
"A new partner will fix everything."
A partner can share a life, not rebuild your identity. Do that first and choose better.
"Healing must take years."
Years of drifting, yes. Focused, structured work can move you in 90 days.
"I need closure from my ex first."
Closure is something you build. And forgiveness does not mean reconciliation.
"Self-care is selfish. If I'm strong, I shouldn't need support."
Strong women ask early. Needing a guide is not weakness, it is strategy.
Yes, it is a free consultation. There is no payment on this page and no price shown. The call exists so you and Prabha can see whether the program fits you.
Coaching is structured, practical and forward-moving: routines, boundaries, money, identity and a plan. If you also need clinical support, Prabha will say so. Many women use both.
Most things you tried gave you a piece: advice, a workshop, a ritual. This works as a sequence, the HEART Formula, with accountability, so each step holds up the next.
That is exactly who this was built for. The program is designed around women with demanding jobs and households, and the call is where you can ask how it would fit your week.
No. Prabha has lived a divorce and rebuilt. This is a stigma-free space and the call is private.
This is for women from 25 to 55. Your experience and income are an advantage, not a handicap.
Part of the work is clear co-parenting boundaries, so their behaviour stops steering your day. You do not need them to change first.
There is no perfect time. Waiting is how months become years. One call costs you nothing and gives you clarity.
Pick a time. Tell Prabha where it hurts. Leave with a clear first step and the feeling that someone finally gets it.
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